Good news?
It was a boy, and it was trisomy 16, the most common form of genetic defect. I was ready to say that I have a hostile womb and just can't carry a baby. Still can't rule that out, but at least that wasn't the cause this time.
Three doctors at two practices believe this is just incredibly crappy luck. If there is a different cause each time, it's easier to believe it.
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I'm glad that you found out what the cause was. I always used to say I "sucked at being pregnant", but this time my body got it right. Yours will happen soon too. I'm sorry for the loss of your son.
You are a beautiful person. It will happen.